Guys ... this is how we love to have our "holes" ... "licked & sucked".!
This is for the guys who want learn how to "suck" a woman's vagina properly, or who've heard that it might not be all that bad to put their face down there, and for women who want to get their guys to eat them. I am not an expert even though thousands of different guys hace "sucked" and "fucked" me over the years... I suppose I am like most females who know what we like, and have had all too many experiences with guys who didn't seem to have the vaguest idea what they were doing "between my legs" !
Eating a woman's vagina is about the most wonderful thing you can do for her. It makes her feel loved, admired, sexy, and of course it makes her orgasm like crazy. Many women prefer it to intercourse, and for most, it's the easiest way to "cum" with a guy. You may have the smallest penis on the planet, but if you give great head, you'll be appreciated as a fabulous lover. Yes, it's that important. Besides, lots of women expect it these days - so you might as well get to know what you're doing. Many guys seem to have a strange love/hate relationship with women's genitalia. Guys that can't wait to get their "cocks" into one are often reluctant to put their face "down there." For every guy who says he loves to eat "pussy", there's another one who's squeamish. We women know this, and it affects our ability to lie back and enjoy the experience.
This is for inexperienced females - Before you can get him to "eat" your "hole" for the first time, you need to get him worked up about the idea, that is, get him to think about sex for a few minutes, but don't do anything to make him "cum" yet. He's got a sex switch in his brain that turns on when he sees a woman, especially a naked one, and turns off as soon as he "cums". Fortunately, it won't take much to get him to "eat" you the first time, just undress and ask him to look at your vagina for a while, show him your clit and let him play with it, promise him a good "fuck" afterwards or a "blowjob" ...if he seems the least bit interested straddle his head and rub your vagina over his face.
This is for you guys - Most guys don't really know what they've been sticking their "cocks" into. Many women also don't appreciate what they have, and can't understand why a guy would think that it was beautiful, let alone want to put his face in it. Why would a guy like to "suck" a vagina ? Most guys I know who really love women and want sex with them think of it as a joint endeavor rather than a conquest, so they also like to "suck" vaginas ! They don't want to just "eat" her, they want to bring her to a great climax and then build her up for a "fuck" that neither will forget, or maybe get a good "blowjob" if that's what she wants to do. I think that there are two basic reasons. First, many guys want to give their woman the most sexual satisfaction they can, they enjoy pleasing her and will go to great lengths to do so, the more their woman likes what they are doing to her, the harder their "cocks" get until sometimes they "cum" just from "eating" her. The second is the role that the mouth, tongue, taste and smell play in sex. Put this all together and your mouth in her vagina is where it's at guys.
I have saved the best for last, the clitoris or clit. Most of you know it, but for those who don't, it's THE woman's sex organ. It may feel great to be "fucked" vaginally or otherwise, but if the stimulation isn't right there, on the clit, you're ignoring the place that's going to make her orgasm, and presumably that's why you're reading this, right ? It's right there at the top juncture of her inner lips, a small knob of pink flesh. Almost any "licking" and "sucking" of the labia or vaginal entrance are going to feel just great, just remember that's pleasurable, teasing, but not the main event. I can't tell you how many of my "lovers" have thrust their tongues up my vagina thinking that that was going to make me "cum".
Women feel differently about how much direct stimulation they can take on their clit. Some women will adore it if you "suck" hard on their exposed clits, others will shriek in pain. You may encounter a woman who is completely unable to take direct stimulation of her clit; the goal is still the same, but you'll have to stimulate it indirectly, such as through her labia. IMPORTANT NOTE: Often, what is unacceptably rough at first, may be fine after she's very excited. The fact is, most women really need a good bit of stimulation before a targeted attack on their clit, but once they're ready, that's where you want to devote your attention.
Positions
You can suck a females "hole" in just about any position a female can get herself in, however, some positions are obviously better than others. Giving your partner a good "suck" can take an hour or more if you play it right. That means that you both have to be in comfortable positions to enjoy it, or even endure it. That usually means a lying, sitting or reclining position. She has to be able to spread her legs comfortably and hold them in that position. She should not have to have the weight of your body on her. She also needs to be able to put her hands on your head and pull it against her. You need to be able to make eye contact with her while you are "eating" her. You have to be able to press your mouth and your tongue in all of her "hole", including holding it deep in her "cunt" without getting a "crick" in your neck. You also have to be able to easily place your hands on her vagina and your fingers in her Vagina.
The obvious place to start is a bed. She can recline comfortably against some pillows and watch you "at work sucking". You can lie on your stomach between her legs, however, you'll have to tilt your head too far back to get your tongue in her cunt comfortably. Putting a couple of pillows under her hips to tilt her pelvis up will help with that problem. This is probably one of the better positions. Another good one, maybe the best, is for her to slide her hips to the edge of the bed and rest her feet on two overstuffed chairs that are spread apart enough for you to rest between them. They can be turned so that she can rest her knees against the arms or backs. A couple of pillows under her head and she can reach your head and "watch". You can rest on a soft cushion on the floor, your head resting on her thigh, sucking on her clit for hours.
And then there's 69. . . . 69 is one of my favorite positions. On the plus side, you both get to enjoy the sublime sensations of getting "head" simultaneously. The upside down positioning of a woman's pussy and your mouth is an easy fit and there's more room for your hands. On the negative side, it's a less than ideal position for a woman to "suck cock" and you may not feel comfortable with your nose in her anus when you French kiss her vagina. I also love for a man to reach down, thrust his tongue deep in my vagina and then slowly lap it back up to my clit which doesn't work well upside down. She can also straddle your face which can be a lot of fun, but be prepared to get very wet. There are endless varieties of positions where you can press your face up to her pussy, some of which strike me as more acrobatic than erotic.
How To Start
For you inexperienced females . . . just lie back and enjoy it, it'll grow on you. When he does something you like, tell him. Hold his head gently with your hands and guide him, talk to him, he'll love it.
Now for the guys So there you are, staring at it - the mysterious "hole" from whence you came, and into which you hope to "cum" again . . . The key here is to go slow, ask questions, really explore her body. Body language often tells what feels best, but I promise, she'll appreciate your attentiveness if you ask outright. If she seems shy, get her to guide your hands and mouth with her own hands, and pay attention. Most women are shy about their bodies. Even if you've got the world's most gorgeous woman in bed with you, she's going to worry about how you like her body. Tell her it's beautiful, tell her which parts you like best, tell her anything, but get her to trust you enough to let you down "between her legs". Women are a good deal more verbal than men, especially during lovemaking. They respond more to verbal love, which means, the more you talk to her, the easier it will be to get her off. So all the time you're petting and stroking her beautiful vagina, talk to her about it. There's nothing more exciting to a woman than to know that her partner finds her delicious. Don't be coy; tell her.
Many men, and women, feel that the tastes and odors associated with a woman's vagina are offensive. This isn't so, the natural fragrance and secretions of a healthy woman are beautiful and erotic, especially to a man. You both need to settle this question at the very beginning. Take turns tasting and smelling her pussy's natural fluids when she's fresh and clean. When you finger her then smell, lick, and suck the juice off your finger and sigh as if you were in heaven, she'll forget this problem and you can dive right in.
What if your female "partner" doesn't smell or taste very sweet ? Don't suffer. ( Don't complain, either.) Take a nice hot shower or bath together. Lather up both of your bodies and slide them together. It's like a whole "body fuck". Soap up her vagina, washing between her outer and inner lips. Spread her lips apart and gently wash her clit. Hey, don't stop - this feels great! Run your soapy hand down the crack of her buttocks, and rub a finger all around her anus, washing the entrance/exit well. But don't put those soapy fingers up her "hole" ! Instead, rinse them off well and stick one or two inside, making a circular motion. Think about washing the inside of a tall glass - same thing. She may prefer to use a douche.... I prefer to use a douche after "bareback" sex with different guys ....if she does, help her do it, you can get your fingers in her vagina later. Now wasn't that fun ? Now you can feel free to let your tongue wander anywhere it pleases . . .
Even though your "slut" wants you to eat her ... she may still be somewhat hesitant about your "going down" on her. Don't just dive right in, warm her up with some serious kissing and cuddling. Move over on top of her and put your legs between hers. Use your elbows to keep some of your weight off her. Slowly work your way down her body, caressing, licking and kissing her ears, eyes, throat, breasts, navel, and wherever she likes. Press your body down on her vagina and slide it around as you move down, getting her used to something being on it besides your hand and "cock". Lap your tongue on down from her navel to the inside of her thigh. Raise her legs over your shoulders and rest your cheek on her "muff" while you continue to lick and kiss her thigh. Lick the crease between her thigh and vagina. Brush your lips over her "pussy" as you turn your head over to work on her other thigh. Look up at her, make eye contact and smile while you rub your cheek over her vagina. When you see her facial expression begin to change to one of anticipation and feel her tilt her vagina up toward you, you know she's forgotten all about her hesitancy and you can start getting into the good stuff.
So now what? You've found a comfy spot to play, you've been kissing passionately, your tongues darting around in each other's mouths like playful kittens. You've moved on down to some of the other interesting parts of her body and she's starting to groan, ready for you to "eat" her now, grinding her pelvis against you. STOP. I know it was just starting to get good. But was she really groaning and humping you, or was it your own excitement you were detecting ? I personally prefer to be excited before a guy starts plunging his tongue into my inner recesses. Use your judgment, women, even more so than men, love to be teased. The inner part of her thigh is one of her more tender spots. Lick it, kiss it, make designs on it with the tip of your tongue. Come dangerously close to her vagina, then float away. Make her anticipate it. Now lick the crease where her leg joins her vagina.
Nuzzle your face into her vagina .. Brush your lips over her vagina without pressing down on it to further excite her until she's arching up her back trying to get you to "eat" her. Of course, if she really was groaning and grinding, go for it . . . I also don't particularly enjoy a guy endlessly nibbling my inner thigh while my clit is quivering in anticipation. Moisten your fingers and open her outer lips, examine them, taste the texture of the inner side with your tongue. See if her clit is starting to peek out from under its hood. Play with her inner lips with your lips and tongue. Open her inner lips and examine the vestibule. See if you can find her meatus, the opening for her urethra. Its sort of like the opening in the head of your "cock" that she plays with, now play with hers with your tongue. Look at the "hole" your penis has been playing around in. The entrance to her vagina looks like an open flower with its lower petals blending into the larger lowermost petals of the inner lips. Taste its juices with your tongue, they should be flowing now. Slip your tongue farther in and feel the texture, move it around in her vagina and watch her response.
Good luck guys.! Barbie xxxx
Eating a woman's vagina is about the most wonderful thing you can do for her. It makes her feel loved, admired, sexy, and of course it makes her orgasm like crazy. Many women prefer it to intercourse, and for most, it's the easiest way to "cum" with a guy. You may have the smallest penis on the planet, but if you give great head, you'll be appreciated as a fabulous lover. Yes, it's that important. Besides, lots of women expect it these days - so you might as well get to know what you're doing. Many guys seem to have a strange love/hate relationship with women's genitalia. Guys that can't wait to get their "cocks" into one are often reluctant to put their face "down there." For every guy who says he loves to eat "pussy", there's another one who's squeamish. We women know this, and it affects our ability to lie back and enjoy the experience.
This is for inexperienced females - Before you can get him to "eat" your "hole" for the first time, you need to get him worked up about the idea, that is, get him to think about sex for a few minutes, but don't do anything to make him "cum" yet. He's got a sex switch in his brain that turns on when he sees a woman, especially a naked one, and turns off as soon as he "cums". Fortunately, it won't take much to get him to "eat" you the first time, just undress and ask him to look at your vagina for a while, show him your clit and let him play with it, promise him a good "fuck" afterwards or a "blowjob" ...if he seems the least bit interested straddle his head and rub your vagina over his face.
This is for you guys - Most guys don't really know what they've been sticking their "cocks" into. Many women also don't appreciate what they have, and can't understand why a guy would think that it was beautiful, let alone want to put his face in it. Why would a guy like to "suck" a vagina ? Most guys I know who really love women and want sex with them think of it as a joint endeavor rather than a conquest, so they also like to "suck" vaginas ! They don't want to just "eat" her, they want to bring her to a great climax and then build her up for a "fuck" that neither will forget, or maybe get a good "blowjob" if that's what she wants to do. I think that there are two basic reasons. First, many guys want to give their woman the most sexual satisfaction they can, they enjoy pleasing her and will go to great lengths to do so, the more their woman likes what they are doing to her, the harder their "cocks" get until sometimes they "cum" just from "eating" her. The second is the role that the mouth, tongue, taste and smell play in sex. Put this all together and your mouth in her vagina is where it's at guys.
I have saved the best for last, the clitoris or clit. Most of you know it, but for those who don't, it's THE woman's sex organ. It may feel great to be "fucked" vaginally or otherwise, but if the stimulation isn't right there, on the clit, you're ignoring the place that's going to make her orgasm, and presumably that's why you're reading this, right ? It's right there at the top juncture of her inner lips, a small knob of pink flesh. Almost any "licking" and "sucking" of the labia or vaginal entrance are going to feel just great, just remember that's pleasurable, teasing, but not the main event. I can't tell you how many of my "lovers" have thrust their tongues up my vagina thinking that that was going to make me "cum".
Women feel differently about how much direct stimulation they can take on their clit. Some women will adore it if you "suck" hard on their exposed clits, others will shriek in pain. You may encounter a woman who is completely unable to take direct stimulation of her clit; the goal is still the same, but you'll have to stimulate it indirectly, such as through her labia. IMPORTANT NOTE: Often, what is unacceptably rough at first, may be fine after she's very excited. The fact is, most women really need a good bit of stimulation before a targeted attack on their clit, but once they're ready, that's where you want to devote your attention.
Positions
You can suck a females "hole" in just about any position a female can get herself in, however, some positions are obviously better than others. Giving your partner a good "suck" can take an hour or more if you play it right. That means that you both have to be in comfortable positions to enjoy it, or even endure it. That usually means a lying, sitting or reclining position. She has to be able to spread her legs comfortably and hold them in that position. She should not have to have the weight of your body on her. She also needs to be able to put her hands on your head and pull it against her. You need to be able to make eye contact with her while you are "eating" her. You have to be able to press your mouth and your tongue in all of her "hole", including holding it deep in her "cunt" without getting a "crick" in your neck. You also have to be able to easily place your hands on her vagina and your fingers in her Vagina.
The obvious place to start is a bed. She can recline comfortably against some pillows and watch you "at work sucking". You can lie on your stomach between her legs, however, you'll have to tilt your head too far back to get your tongue in her cunt comfortably. Putting a couple of pillows under her hips to tilt her pelvis up will help with that problem. This is probably one of the better positions. Another good one, maybe the best, is for her to slide her hips to the edge of the bed and rest her feet on two overstuffed chairs that are spread apart enough for you to rest between them. They can be turned so that she can rest her knees against the arms or backs. A couple of pillows under her head and she can reach your head and "watch". You can rest on a soft cushion on the floor, your head resting on her thigh, sucking on her clit for hours.
And then there's 69. . . . 69 is one of my favorite positions. On the plus side, you both get to enjoy the sublime sensations of getting "head" simultaneously. The upside down positioning of a woman's pussy and your mouth is an easy fit and there's more room for your hands. On the negative side, it's a less than ideal position for a woman to "suck cock" and you may not feel comfortable with your nose in her anus when you French kiss her vagina. I also love for a man to reach down, thrust his tongue deep in my vagina and then slowly lap it back up to my clit which doesn't work well upside down. She can also straddle your face which can be a lot of fun, but be prepared to get very wet. There are endless varieties of positions where you can press your face up to her pussy, some of which strike me as more acrobatic than erotic.
How To Start
For you inexperienced females . . . just lie back and enjoy it, it'll grow on you. When he does something you like, tell him. Hold his head gently with your hands and guide him, talk to him, he'll love it.
Now for the guys So there you are, staring at it - the mysterious "hole" from whence you came, and into which you hope to "cum" again . . . The key here is to go slow, ask questions, really explore her body. Body language often tells what feels best, but I promise, she'll appreciate your attentiveness if you ask outright. If she seems shy, get her to guide your hands and mouth with her own hands, and pay attention. Most women are shy about their bodies. Even if you've got the world's most gorgeous woman in bed with you, she's going to worry about how you like her body. Tell her it's beautiful, tell her which parts you like best, tell her anything, but get her to trust you enough to let you down "between her legs". Women are a good deal more verbal than men, especially during lovemaking. They respond more to verbal love, which means, the more you talk to her, the easier it will be to get her off. So all the time you're petting and stroking her beautiful vagina, talk to her about it. There's nothing more exciting to a woman than to know that her partner finds her delicious. Don't be coy; tell her.
Many men, and women, feel that the tastes and odors associated with a woman's vagina are offensive. This isn't so, the natural fragrance and secretions of a healthy woman are beautiful and erotic, especially to a man. You both need to settle this question at the very beginning. Take turns tasting and smelling her pussy's natural fluids when she's fresh and clean. When you finger her then smell, lick, and suck the juice off your finger and sigh as if you were in heaven, she'll forget this problem and you can dive right in.
What if your female "partner" doesn't smell or taste very sweet ? Don't suffer. ( Don't complain, either.) Take a nice hot shower or bath together. Lather up both of your bodies and slide them together. It's like a whole "body fuck". Soap up her vagina, washing between her outer and inner lips. Spread her lips apart and gently wash her clit. Hey, don't stop - this feels great! Run your soapy hand down the crack of her buttocks, and rub a finger all around her anus, washing the entrance/exit well. But don't put those soapy fingers up her "hole" ! Instead, rinse them off well and stick one or two inside, making a circular motion. Think about washing the inside of a tall glass - same thing. She may prefer to use a douche.... I prefer to use a douche after "bareback" sex with different guys ....if she does, help her do it, you can get your fingers in her vagina later. Now wasn't that fun ? Now you can feel free to let your tongue wander anywhere it pleases . . .
Even though your "slut" wants you to eat her ... she may still be somewhat hesitant about your "going down" on her. Don't just dive right in, warm her up with some serious kissing and cuddling. Move over on top of her and put your legs between hers. Use your elbows to keep some of your weight off her. Slowly work your way down her body, caressing, licking and kissing her ears, eyes, throat, breasts, navel, and wherever she likes. Press your body down on her vagina and slide it around as you move down, getting her used to something being on it besides your hand and "cock". Lap your tongue on down from her navel to the inside of her thigh. Raise her legs over your shoulders and rest your cheek on her "muff" while you continue to lick and kiss her thigh. Lick the crease between her thigh and vagina. Brush your lips over her "pussy" as you turn your head over to work on her other thigh. Look up at her, make eye contact and smile while you rub your cheek over her vagina. When you see her facial expression begin to change to one of anticipation and feel her tilt her vagina up toward you, you know she's forgotten all about her hesitancy and you can start getting into the good stuff.
So now what? You've found a comfy spot to play, you've been kissing passionately, your tongues darting around in each other's mouths like playful kittens. You've moved on down to some of the other interesting parts of her body and she's starting to groan, ready for you to "eat" her now, grinding her pelvis against you. STOP. I know it was just starting to get good. But was she really groaning and humping you, or was it your own excitement you were detecting ? I personally prefer to be excited before a guy starts plunging his tongue into my inner recesses. Use your judgment, women, even more so than men, love to be teased. The inner part of her thigh is one of her more tender spots. Lick it, kiss it, make designs on it with the tip of your tongue. Come dangerously close to her vagina, then float away. Make her anticipate it. Now lick the crease where her leg joins her vagina.
Nuzzle your face into her vagina .. Brush your lips over her vagina without pressing down on it to further excite her until she's arching up her back trying to get you to "eat" her. Of course, if she really was groaning and grinding, go for it . . . I also don't particularly enjoy a guy endlessly nibbling my inner thigh while my clit is quivering in anticipation. Moisten your fingers and open her outer lips, examine them, taste the texture of the inner side with your tongue. See if her clit is starting to peek out from under its hood. Play with her inner lips with your lips and tongue. Open her inner lips and examine the vestibule. See if you can find her meatus, the opening for her urethra. Its sort of like the opening in the head of your "cock" that she plays with, now play with hers with your tongue. Look at the "hole" your penis has been playing around in. The entrance to her vagina looks like an open flower with its lower petals blending into the larger lowermost petals of the inner lips. Taste its juices with your tongue, they should be flowing now. Slip your tongue farther in and feel the texture, move it around in her vagina and watch her response.
Good luck guys.! Barbie xxxx
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